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Join the fun! Two Wishful Thinking Works workshops in Cleveland, Ohio in April

Patrice Koerper  Life Coach Wishful Thinking woman and treesOne of the best parts of my life coaching practice is being able to take interesting, helpful, scientific research and breaking it down into user-friendly formats and activities for real folks – like you and me – to use. 

I’m thrilled to announce that on Saturday, April 20th from 1-4 p.m., I will be in Cleveland, Ohio doing just that as I present a 3-hour workshop chockfull of great ideas and information to help women of all ages re-energize or redirect their lives.

And, on Saturday, April 27 from 1-4 p.m., I will be presenting a special “Flourishing Together” workshop for moms and daughters, ages 9-12, to help them discover new ways to work together to build their self-esteem and confidence.

If you are in the Cleveland area, please plan to  join us for one of these fantastic workshops, if not, consider bringing a Wishful Thinking Works workshop to your part of the world!

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Everybody’s workin’ for the weekend.

Got that song in my head.  Can’t get it out.  Don’t know why I am having this particular musical flashback, but it got me dancing, so I figure it can’t be all bad.

It also led me to think about a radio ritual started by Kid Leo, a famous Cleveland, Ohio DJ (1974-1988 – had to look that up), who dominated the airwaves daily on an iconic Cleveland radio station, WMMS.  (I was born and lived in Cleveland until I was 35, please bear with me.)

In the 70’s and 80’s WMMS was well-known for giving airtime to new bands, covering live concerts and later for being one of the driving forces for bringing the Rock & Roll Hall of Fame to the shores of Lake Erie.

Kid Leo was known for many things, but the one I remember best was his weekly habit of playing Born to Run as his signature sign-off song at 5 p.m. on Fridays.   This sweet little act united and motivated drivers throughout Northeast Ohio (this was a time and place where everyone, who was anyone, listened to FM in the car) by providing us with musical and philosophical weekend guidance from The Boss, “Nobody wins, unless everybody wins.” 

So why am I dragging you down my musical memory lane?

Because even though I now work a completely relaxed and flexible schedule, Fridays still feel special to me (just like the return to school each fall whether or not I am returning), and are the perfect time to create a weekend ritual.

Rituals connect us to each other and act as a bridge from the past to the future by allowing us to honor or recognize moments in the present.  I like that.

They are a formalized version of mindfulness, and they remind us, and tell the folks around us, that we value what we are celebrating. 

Think about starting a weekend ritual. 

Make it something that transports you from one state of mind to another, even if the flow for you from workdays to weekend is flawless, stopping to honor the transitional moment can signal your brain and those around you that you are aware of the value of each.

How do you begin a ritual?  I think of rituals as having three major components.

1. Meaning

2. Timing

3. Activities

Begin by identifying why you want to mark the moment – what do you want to honor or celebrate?

Pick a time and maybe a consistent place, and then decide what you want to do.  Make it simple and easy to recreate, and if you want others to join in, make sure you include them in the planning process. 

Then test it out.  Don’t give-up if the first few times the ritual doesn’t seem to gel, just rework and revamp it until it feels right. Make changes along the way until your ritual becomes something you (or everyone involved) look forward to, is easy to execute and enjoy, and brings you a sense of connection to something larger than life or at least bigger than yourself.

One of my favorite rituals seems pretty silly, but it gave me the feeling of connectedness I was looking for. For years I began my weekend with an early movie, then dinner out. I was out of my office by 4 p.m. (I made sure to start early or stay late ahead of time to make this possible – rituals take some level of planning, which may actually increase their value to you), and was cozily ensconced in a movie theater seat by 4:30 each Friday. 

I was faithful to this practice with or without a companion, but was lucky enough most of the time to have a girlfriend, date or boyfriend join me.  For them it was a fun escape, for me it was much more – it meant that I was taking time to do exactly what I enjoyed doing, in a way I enjoyed doing it – I was celebrating me and the passage of time and the events that had allowed me to be more comfortable than ever being me!  My little ritual led me to many, many other rich and rewarding choices in my life. 

Please do not underestimate the value of recognizing who you are and what you like.  It is the key to creating the life you want. 

So whether your weekend ritual involves the gentle glow of candles, the healing aspects of water, the soothing value of meditation, games with the kids, special foods or treats, or the simple fun of a good movie, make it your own and let it transport you to the place you truly want to be.

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